Yes. I enjoy my alone time. I love going out by myself as much as I enjoy spending time with family and friends. When I am interested in something I go for it even if it means doing it alone.
Maybe I used the wrong word when my date asked me to describe something interesting about myself. I was somewhat shocked when his response began with “well that’s a problem…”
I thought to myself, being independent is a problem? You said just a few moments before that you would not date a woman if she wasn’t ambitious. Don’t the two go hand and hand. How can you be ambitious when you don’t take initiative, even if it means doing it alone, because no one else cares.
I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not, even on a first date. So yeah, I was independent yesterday, I am independent today and will be every other day that the Lord allows me to be. It’s in my genes.